You have to be your own best friend. That's important. As well as your own worst enemy -
Ele, in case you're wondering, is not my actual name - it's Elinor. Ele is how my older brother and sister spelled it when we were little (and very bad at spelling). You can pronounce it like Ellie or like Elle, I don't mind at all. We grew up in the Wiltshire town of Chippenham with our parents and our much loved cat, George - who got me into drawing as he made such perfect poses and liked to lay in them for hours at a time.
Following A-Levels in Art and English Literature at Sheldon School (as well as Geography, which I hated) I stayed with an Italian family in Turin, Italy, where I spoke terrible Italian to two very lovely (and excellent English-speaking) boys.
When I got back, I took an Art Foundation course at Trowbridge College which taught me to never feel precious about anything creative. I went on to study a degree in Visual Communication, specialising in Graphic Design, at the University of Central England, Birmingham - which was a mistake because, although I loved Birmingham and design can be fun, my heart wasn't in it.
Because I didn't know quite what to do next, I took a PGCE in Primary Teaching - which confirmed the brilliance of children and how much more interesting they are than adults.
After moving south from Sutton Coldfield, I settled in Bath and began exhibiting my mixed media paintings, preferring to use newspapers, zips, buttons, bra-straps - things most sensible people throw away. I also started to write in earnest when I had an idea for a novel. Writing very rapidly became an addiction. I sent the first few chapters to the Golden Egg Academy, where Imogen Cooper, previous head of fiction at Chicken House Publishers, advises me still. My writing is also represented by Kate Shaw from The Viney Agency.
When I'm not wading through collage paper or print outs of stories, I tend to my husband, three beautiful children, three cats (who all like to spend hours posing too) and one creatively chaotic house